Realization

With a weird realization of pouring in my thoughts onto this doc makes me somehow filled up with an anxiety, excitement and a wonder with why am I doing it?


But there are some people in this earth who actually want me to vomit my thoughts and draft in an article which talks about me and human psychology. The word human psychology seems to be weird when I talk about writing or pouring in thoughts but a change within me is making me get into this so called word Analysis.

With all my regards and speechless expression I thank the people around me especially the ones who made me vomit up my thoughts with a realization that yes this is what I need to do..

PERCEPTION !!!

Listen First before ASSUMING

Being judged on every pretext, will never be liked by anyone. But being a human we cannot stop our perceptions. We judge the people by their action, attitude, behavior, looks etc. I never thought people will observe me very minutely but the fact is people start creating a perception in their mind.

The word perception always begins with the minutest of thoughts like the other person is always busy on phone probably person is going around with someone, the person is quiet he/she is throwing attitude, person hangs out more with opposite gender people that person isn’t good. Etc.

There are lot many things which happen around us and we create an impression about it based on our judgments. Each individual is aware of what to do when and how. The fact is that life is different at different stages, when you are in college you tend to react more like a youngster who is not bothered about anything. While you start working your life changes, there are lots of changes that happen within you. But people around you don’t stop assuming about you and the changes that happen within you.

Each individual has a different personality at different places or similar personality at different places. It’s all about that attitude and its reflection that we get about the other person.

Perception is nothing but the process of attaining awareness or understanding of the environment by organizing and interpreting sensory information.

This insight about anyone can cause lot of problems and things fall bad.

Without knowing the actual facts, adjudicating is BAD.

U may say PERCEPTION… PERCEPTION….PERCEPTION….Why the hell is it happening?

Understand the environment, sense what is happening and clear your facts. Don’t just ASSUME all the time.

Life Is Nothing But An Instructional Manual!

Life Is Nothing But An Instructional Manual!

When we talk about describing our everyday life we usually work according to a laid routine.

Very lately I realized its nothing more than a step by step instructional manual to our body. Working days in a normal human life are similar and monotonous. Almost 90% among us follow a similar patterned lifestyle. A normal human tendency only goes apart of the monotonous routines on weekend or some exceptional days may be a festival or a vacation, which I feel is also planned and is done in a repetitive fashion.

Our human psychology is set with an immovable lifestyle and mindset. We try not to change it and work on similar lines as we always do. So, we follow a pattern of life which starts like an instructional manual.

A normal week day generally starts with a step-wise life. May be for a working woman, it’s much more stressful and systematized like a laid routine than anyone can think about.

For example: Life for a working woman in normal weekdays goes this way:

Step 1> Get up, and then get into the kitchen.

Step 2> Cook breakfast, pack lunch for everyone.

Step 3> Run after the maid to get the rest of the house work done.

Step 4 > Send kids to school, if any. Keep running to get all the tasks completed.

Step 5> Get ready and leave for the office.

Step 6> Reach office, say hello to everyone and then kick start your work by seeing your emails.

Step 7> Work the entire day at office, have a lunch break in between eat food and then get back to work.

Step 8> Office is over back to HOME.

Step 9> Cook food for everyone at home, plan things for next day at home and work.

Step 10> Go to sleep.

A normal workday life of a woman surrounds mostly around the 10 steps above.

Well let’s not generalize everything to women or all men will feel biased about it. Not just women even men are use to a static routine in their life, for them there is a little scope of getting a break on every Friday when they can party with friends but most of them do not party and stick to their usual chores of work and mundane.

At the end normal life is nothing but a repetitive user guide to our body...

Don’t you think we require a change from this instructional life and a monotonous mundane?

Let’s look out for a new user guide!!

Blogging after an year..

People always think about why do some people waste time in blogging or writing something absurd and post online.

But those who actually write take some time out of their busy schedules to express or write about the thoughts that ponder in their mind, it matters a lot. It’s been almost more than a year when I blogged, but in this year there were many moments where I thought I would write about something and could not do, coz of my hectic schedule.

But for me there are numerous things to write on like inflation, our poor railway system, or about the vicious circles of job life.

With a lot to write about I here be begin my writing again after a break…
But don’t expect a lot too many … I am still trying to get back to the mode..